Wanted to update you all on what’s going on in my life these days…I have to admit, things are pretty darn good. I went to the doctor and finally got some medicine to clear up my sinus issues. As much as I hate to admit this, the natural way just wasn’t cutting it. My clear head is helping me keep up with my mission to “add life to my days, not days to my life“. I’m trying to stay present and not stress too much about things I cannot control. I am also doing my best to keep up with my artistic side by painting, designing and creating. Fueling that aspect of my life makes me feel the happiest. I also started to work out a little more regularly. My kids are finally starting to dig the “kid area” at my gym. Yyyyesss! In terms of being a parent, I am being positive but tough with my kids. I can’t let these little ones walk all over me, which believe me, they are very capable of doing so. And finally, I am getting more organized! How you ask? I started blocking out 20 minute chunks of my days to clean and organize without phone, email, or facebook interruptions. I even set my timer on my phone to know when time’s up.
The next thing I want to get back into is Juicing!!!! I want to juice everyday to get my family’s bodies strong for the winter months. Eating better will also be a priority of mine. I better get my copy of Clean out again!
Thanks again for all of your support and kind words!
May you all have peaceful and positive thoughts the next couple of days!
So remember when I mentioned Megan was working on an exciting new project? Well, here it is! She just launched a new Chicago-based business called Matilda and Madeline, Mother’s Helpers.
What mom doesn’t wish for an assistant to help plan meals, stock the nursery, help figure out what to wear for that cocktail party or baby shower, run errands, plan an exquisite birthday party or to help efficiently reorganize your home to fit yours and your child’s needs? Matilda and Madeline is your one-stop shop for it all! The services she offers are above and beyond expectations. Check out her site and put your feet up and relax for a bit while Matilda and Madeline do the work for you!
Congrats, Meg! I’m so proud that you are following your dreams and doing something you love. I have no doubt this will be a huge success!
Loved this pic and message I stumbled on ffffound.com. I thought I would share this sweet little message with y’all.
So my family is very direct and straightforward with one another. We don’t fluff anything up when giving advice or tiptoe around one another’s feelings which can sometimes be tough to swallow. Tough love isn’t always the easiest to deal with but sometimes it’s just necessary. The other day my mom and I were talking and she mentioned to me that lately it seemed like “life” has been sucked right out of me. She felt that my spirit was not at its fullest potential. Although I had a million and one excuses ( I have two kids who are a bit high maintenance in the emotional and physical department, my husband works super long hours, there’s so much turmoil in the world that literally has an effect on me, my sinuses are at its worst this time of year….blah, blah, blah) I knew she was right. Sometimes I go through my days just waiting for the evening to roll around so I can veg on the couch with a book or the remote in my hand. I don’t want to be a zombie just going through the motions. I want to be energetic, creative and fun! I owe it to my family and to those around me.
So that’s what I’m working on these days. I want to add life to my days, not days to my life! Thanks Mom for the tough love. It was just what I needed to open my eyes to a brighter horizon.
What do you think of tough love? Are you easily offended or do you view it as constructive criticism?
One of my favorite things to do is to daydream about traveling the world with my family. I get excited thinking about taking Stella and Harry to – the top of the Eiffel Tower, The Great Wall of China, on a safari in Africa, St. Sophia mosque in Turkey, the mountain tops of Switzerland, the Grand Canyon, the beaches in California, etc. You get the point. I know they will love it and they might learn a thing or two from other cultures.
Our next destination? New York City! Actually, we are staying in Park Slope, Brooklyn visiting my fly sister Krystle and her boyfriend, Tim. Fun times ahead! I’ll share some stories and my own pics afterwards!
Nothing annoys me more than a person who doesn’t appreciate the good things in life. Okay, I know I’m guilty of it sometimes – ya know, feeling sorry for myself during the days I have a million things to do, a house to clean and two toddlers wanting every ounce of my attention. But I am able to sit back and appreciate the greatness that is in my life – health, joy, family, and the ability to recognize that life isn’t all about ME.
I am experiencing a situation with a close family member of mine who does not realize how blessed he is. He goes on feeling sorry for himself and cannot recognize the positive people/things he has in his life. As I listen to him complain “woe is me” I cannot help but feel a bit of disgust. Why disgust and not compassion for a person who is extremely close to me? because his priorities are backwards and truly mixed up in his head. the thoughts he chooses to emphasize are EGO related and for some reason it bugs the crap out of me. I feel like yelling, “PUT THINGS IN PERSPECTIVE, WILL YA?!” He can’t grasp that there’s more to life than his own feelings, reputation, status, and how much money he has in his pocket. I wonder if he will ever realize there’s more to life than himself.
What would you do if you knew someone like this? I’ve suggested many things that could help him such as meditation (a incomprehensible act for someone who is so EGO-driven), church, volunteering, spending more time with family, tai chi, vacations, etc. None of it has helped. I’ve spent many years trying to help him out, but he doesn’t seem to get “it”. The whole situation makes me sad and I’m at the point that I set up major boundaries when I’m near him – I do not let him express his thoughts to me about particular subjects, but then I feel bad about not listening to him.
How do you help someone who’s not willing to help themselves?
It’s not up to me to save the world, but I do want to help out those so close to me and who have given me so much. This is my last attempt. Do you have any suggestions on helping someone gain innerpeace when they are extremely EGO driven? How do you help them put life in perspective? Or should we just not care?
A stoic barn we passed along the way…
Oh, fall-it’s the season that encourages us to wear flannel and consume copious amounts of pumpkin and apple-based baked goods. Feeling inspired, I decided to take a day trip to a local orchard where I could don my beloved flannel and gather some apples for a delicious apple pie.
Living in the city, I don’t get as much time as I would like to really submerge myself into nature and am always excited for a day-trip where I can hug a tree or walk around bare footed. All About Apples is a really helpful website with an abundance of information on orchards across the state.
I found Royal Oak Farm in Harvard, Illinois to be quite charming and was touched when I read that they are closed on Sundays so that they can spend time with their families. The hour and a half drive out to Harvard was lovely and scenic-we really felt like we had traveled outside of the bustling city.
Royal Oak Farm was everything that I had hoped it to be as we pulled up the winding drive-I felt a sense of peace immediately flow through me.
If you have little ones, the tractor ride is a fun way to get around through the orchards but we chose transportation by foot-any opportunity I have to walk on actual grass I will take!
It seemed that the rows went on forever…
We asked a sweet lady at the farm which apple she would choose for baking and she said Cortland apples are best because of their balance between sweet and tart. All of the rows of trees are clearly posted with the name of the apple, and marked with a yellow flag if they are ready for harvest.
I couldn’t help myself…
There is nothing like the sound of leaves crunching underneath your feet…
The farm also keeps bees, and offers the all-natural honey for sale in the General Store…stay tuned for more about the art of bee-keeping.
Our finished product after a delightful day in the country.